What’s up my friend!?

In this video I share with you something no one is really talking about (and no one wants to admit it’s going on).

Call it ego, call it whatever you want. Either way, it needs to be addressed. You’ll also discover a very simple way to solve this problem once and for all!

I hope you enjoy it…

 

 

This process works. Few people teach it. But it’s a proven way to align yourself with what you desire (and it just feels awesome!)

I encourage you to try this. It’s pretty amazing what starts to happen the more you practice this simple and ancient process.

Please leave a a comment below. What did you think of the video?

To your total success and abundance,

*Joshua BenAvides

P.S. Do you know anyone who really needs to hear this? Then share it with your friends on facebook and twitter. More people really need to hear this message.

 

 

52 Responses to #1 Biggest Self-Sabotaging Behavior (and what to do about it)

  1. Liz says:

    Very good video a real eye opener. Thanks

  2. Dear Joshua, this is such an important lesson that is so easy to forget. Thanks for reminding me. I am thrilled to see you so radiant, happy and successful, but what really impresses me is how you keep producing highly valuable content at a speed that leaves most of us behind. Many blessings <3

  3. sulis says:

    thank you so much for posting this,really wonderful lesson. But vidio is stop running when you say BLESS WHAT YOU WANT, what is trhe next way to delete comparisonitis??

  4. Clara says:

    OMG, I’m suffering from comparisonitis. :( I’ve been trying for a couple of years to leave my job and start my own business in the personal development and coaching field, and nothing seems to ever move. Now I realize that I look with envy at all other entrepreneurs who have made it and I always think that they don’t deserve it, that they were just lucky, that I’m much smarter but why nothing ever works for me etc. etc. etc. I’ll definitely change my attitude starting from, like, now. :) Thank you so much for the presentation!

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      It’s not uncommon Clara. The first step is to become aware. The next is to do something about it. Our attitudes determine what we expect out of life. And in life, it seems, we get what we expect (contrary to popular belief). Blessings your way my friend!

  5. Bless you Joshua! I am such a comparing person and today you gave me such a blessing with blessing those I compare myself to. Thank you!

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      Hey Maureen! Nice to see you here. :) Blessings your way my friend. You’re doing amazing things for people’s lives. People are blessed to have you as a guide by their side. Much love!

  6. andy says:

    hey joshua
    about to start a course on the subconscious mind.
    my life has been much like most others. Pockes of flare and success but mostly a life of limitation and self sabotage. I feel as though I havent even begun to live my life until now.
    I have already intuitively developed my own way of tackling my subconscious mind and one of my desires is to have an unconditional loving relationship.
    This very afternoon I was on the bus coming home from work and sitting in front of me were two young lovers. I was happy to simply observe them and appreciate them. BUT what I registered in a split second or nanosecond was an intense feeling of deep resentment of them when I first saw them.
    I was shocked at my response and now having read your notes on comparisonitis I have suddenly realised how often I do this and how very finely tuned iti is within me.
    Thank you for your clarity and wisdom that I have shared with you tonight.
    The other thing you said was to fall in love with those things I am seeking to manifest that are being enjoyed by others. Its a very powerful understanding for me
    thankyou Joshua

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      Wonderful. It’s true. Sometimes it;s just a subtle little shift in our perceptions that changes everything around us and the results we create in life. Now you get to look forward to all the evidence that what you want wants you and is showing up in the many different forms it si right now…until you fully appreciate it in its current form in your life. Much love!

  7. Walt says:

    Your presentation is so profoundly obvious and at the same time so evasive. I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for your insight and generosity.

  8. Linda says:

    BLESS, BLESS, BLESS Joshua BenAvides, very beautiful video, better than Sunday Church, I had been Blessing myself lately, but now I will start blessing others :) , LOL

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      HEhehehe…better than Sunday church huh? :) that’s funny. Blessings right back to ya my friend. And yes, let’s keep blessing and celebrating everyone’s successes in life. We’re all in it together. And there’s plenty to go around.

  9. Debra says:

    Joshua, Great words of wisdom! Thank you for sharing this information. It is so simple and so true. :)

  10. Tim says:

    Awesome! This really makes a lot of sense! I have never really had what I would call bad thoughts about other people’s success but , I have also never actually blessed their success! From now on I will do that! To get positive results you have to project positive energy! Thanks for the share!

  11. Linda says:

    Hello Joshua, the other person who talks about pure Awareness is Dr. Frank Kinslow of Quantum Entrainment who uses it to heal people. It is pretty fascinating.

  12. Kristin Reagan says:

    this is so awesome!! Bless you.. and thank you for the share..

  13. Greg says:

    Thank you Joshua,
    It is great that you are able to share this information with many people. I have a question that is related to the Law of Attraction. From what I understand, what you think about the most is what you attracted in life. The Universe does not understand what you want and do not want, it just understands what you think about the most and tries to manifest what it thinks you want because you think about it the most. Is this correct?
    I wonder this because by this theory it would mean that you could love or hate people cutting you off while you drive and the universe will find people to cut you off while you are driving, correct? So, does this mean that a person could dislike being wealthy, think about trying to not be wealthy, and still the universe would find ways to help them remain wealthy because being wealthy is their dominate thought? Sorry about the long comment, Joshua. I am just wondering if there is a way of accidently attracting the right things just like attracting the wrong things the life.

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      Thanks for the question Greg. That’s a great question. Let’s start by clarifying something that most people miss because it’s not well understood in most “Law of Attraction” circles.

      And that can be best stated in this way:

      YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE.

      You can’t fool yourself. There is no accident behind what you’re creating and attracting. There is only perception. And all perceptions are projections.

      We see in the world what we are, what we believe, and what we value. We don’t see the world as it IS.

      Your inner most dominant thoughts DO become your outer most tangible reality. But our most dominant thoughts are usually unconscious…

      And that’s where we all need to do the work of bringing the light of awareness to all our judged and disowned parts…to all the negative conditioning we’ve received in our lives…release it, heal it, and let it go so your dominant thoughts and feelings ARE in alignment with your highest good…your visions and purpose for being.

      As our main man “The Buddha” once said:

      The act of perceiving anything says more about the perceiver than the object being perceived.

      Change the root and you change the fruit.

      Not sure if that answers your question. But it might help :-) Blessings my friend.

      • Greg says:

        Thanks Joshua,
        I was wondering about that little bit of information because I know many people who claim that they always get what they do not want. When I hear this statement it makes me wonder if they are focused on what they do not want more often than what they do want. I also know people that seem to have everything, but do not want anything. Things just happen for them. Thank you for the information to help with my studies, Joshua:)

  14. Craig says:

    Thank you Joshua, that video really resonated with me. I can see how my comparisonitis has been holding me back from manifesting what I wish to achieve. I feel that this shift in perception will make a huge difference in my life and in my results. Bless you!!

  15. Dylan says:

    Awesome, like the simplicity of it. Great new association for me because usually I mentally bless people when I myself feel up. This will be great for developing some qualities that I perceive in others but don’t “own” myself.

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      For sure…it’s truly the simple things that make the biggest differences. Just like you don’t have to everything about a car motor to know that you simply need to put gasoline in it in order to keep your car running…It’s the same with these mental laws. We simply need to know how to turn the light switch on. Much love!

  16. Rosie says:

    I’m suffering from comparisonitis too! This video was very important to me. The success of other people always brings me down, because I think “why they may have it and i don’t”, everybody have the things that I most want in the world, everybody but me, and many of them aren’t even grateful for having that, and why do they deserve it? I see people who may be together with their loved one, the women have the bless of being married to the man they love, this is all I want in the world, to get together with my love, see him everyday, wake up on his side every morning, spend all the nights together, live together.. But we’re always apart. I want him to love me and get together with me, I love him so much..
    This week I needed to visit a friend, but I didn’t wanna go, cause I knew I would feel depressed, to see that she has all that I ever wanted, and she wanted the same things that me, and she got it.
    I’ll try now to feel happy when I see other couples, and feel like I also got it, maybe this thing will work. I’m currently trying to shift my self image often, but sometimes I feel tired of doing it and getting no results, I don’t know if I’m doing it right. But thank you Joshua for the presentation it really made a difference to me

    • Joshua BenAvides says:

      Rosie, you have some wonderful opportunities in front of you. Keep your spirit high and keep blessing what you want. Experience the joy as if it were your own. Persistence is key. Just remember…If you CAN be stopped…you WILL be stopped. Be unstoppable. Keep appreciating and counting all the blessings around you. Reality will shape itself to your perception…always. Blessings!

      • Rosie says:

        So this morning I did an exercise. I took a bottle, and it represented to me the obstacle, I focused on seeing it as the resistance, and I took a hammer and hit it, I needed to destroy it to free my path. The firsts hits had no effect, and I felt the resistance, so I hit it 3 or 4 times with no effect, and I thought for a moment that I couldn’t do it, “it’s too thick, it won’t break”, but in the next time it broke so easily, it was such a relief to feel it ceasing to exist under my hands. Now everytime i’m remembering this sensation and feeling like I destroyed the obstacles, it feels good, like I can do anything.
        Thanks for the tips, bless you ;)

  17. Rita says:

    GUILTY!!!!! LOL Thank you! You are a blessing in my life this day…. God Bless you in all you do…. looking forward to hearing more of what you have to share…..

  18. Liz says:

    Bless you Joshua Thank you for audio

  19. Scott says:

    Great way to start the day Joshua!
    Thanks for the hilariously delivered and
    most important message. Carrying this
    one throughout the day.
    Blessings~

  20. Karen says:

    Thank you for this “blessing” so simple yet so profound!! Perfect timing in my life!

  21. Max says:

    What you said is very, very true. It also makes life infinitely more enjoyable.

  22. Jaana says:

    Thank you , Joshua!
    It made me realise that I do envy people who are successful. Huuh, I admit it. Now that I think about it I can see that it has been holding me back, too. Thanks for the useful piece of life puzzle!
    I let myself be happy for ohters’ success.

    Bless you and the things you are doing!
    Jaana

  23. Tehfeen says:

    Thanks for this great reminder. Thats just what i needed to hear right now.

    God bless u.

  24. Avery Energy says:

    I really appreciated sending out a blessing to a friend of mine while watching your video. That is a wonderful gift to offer the world Joshua!

    peace
    Avery

  25. Blessings Joshua! What a wonderfully clear video – I LOVE it. As a current student at IIN and HMBA I am hearing about lots of successes of others and I definitely want to get into the practice of sending everyone blessings. It feels WAY better than getting all jealous! Thanks for sharing.

  26. Laurie says:

    Thank you Joshua! That was so to the point and I am so guilty of comparisonitis!! Luckily it’s an easy remedy! Thank you thank you….oh! and blessings to you!

    Laurie

  27. jennifer says:

    blessings to YOU Joshua. thanks for sharing this, and for all you do.
    the comparisonitis hits me hard and causes a major stall out. much needed today!
    jennifer

  28. Roberto says:

    I am writing this comment before reading any previous one because I do not want to be influenced by any of them …… And yes Joshua, indeed, when I compare myself with someone more successful than me, even a friend or relative and although this give me great joy, at the bottom of my heart I feel a little envy (of the good as we say in my country) instead of giving him / her my blessings because I want to be like him / her and I feel that I would not be able to do that in the same way.
    This was not different with respect to you, until now, so God (and I) bless you for your success and God bless you for sharing your knowledge with us. Thanks’
    Roberto

    PS Now I will read all comments

  29. Bernard says:

    A big thanks to you for this remarkable video.
    Only seven minutes to understand what was going wrong for me with the law of attraction.
    Thousands times a day, now, I give blessings around me. It is a sort of short cut to practice manifestation.
    When you bless, you show gratitude, you ask, you believe, you let go, you forgive, you are ready to receive, you feel no more lack, you are full of serenity, you ask only for positive things that you want, you feel the vibrations at your fingers’ edge, you feel a sort of heat, you are limitless (you feel infinity) you are one with universe and the abundance is surrounding you, you are not only thinking but you are feeling and all that in the INSTANT. WOUAOU!!! MARVELLOUS !!! Is it of yours?, did you found that process alone?
    It is like if I was quietly walking toward my personal evolution and you put me in the seat of a space rocket. It is like if you had increase tenfold my capability to attract. In fact you multiplied it by ten thousand times.
    Both neurological point of view and mentally you changed myself.
    Bye bye my self sabotaging, the poison which was inside me, you gave me the “antidote”. to resume, you gave me an other way of live.
    God bless you.

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